kid yourself not,

every now and then we come across an expression of words, designed to stimulate senses in us that have seemed to be dulled by our almost monotonous ritual of life. some stick, forever, some shed a different light unto what you normally see, some make you laugh, sounds of happiness, some make you reflect and some..just make you cry.

here is one that did all the above except making me cry. i would like to add that i roughly made up these phrases myself as i could not find the exact words after a simple search.

' For every harsh word that you throw at her, your love, there will always be another guy out there soothing her with one that would almost seem angelic in comparison. For every tear you make her shed, there will always be another guy out there who would not only wipe those tears away but perhaps shed more on her behalf. [okay maybe not] For every moment you make her wait, there will always be, come say it with me, A-N-O-T-H-E-R G-U-Y who will accompany her till your arrival, be it by phone or flesh. And for every time you fail to tell her that you love her, there will always be another guy telling her that she is cared for.....so cherish her or another guy will'



This definitely made me reflect and ponder about how much more stupid it can get.

Just do this, take out the first half of every sentence and you'd realize that these things are definitely going to happen, regardless of what the guys do, henceforth,  the former part is just added to make you feel guilty. Therefore, if you as a girl think that this gives you the license to freely lean on any other guy, every single time you hit a wall, big or small, then you are the real culprit, culprit being a very polite understatement; because there is no couple out there who will not disagree. When that happens, tears will fall, words will cut. And if you don't hold fast and sort things out, it's never going to work, half a clam cannot swim. Remember that, you.......culprits.